We don’t need our lives to be different, or easier… We just need someone to see the pain, to know what we have faced and overcome, to say: ‘Yes, I see this. All those things that really happened, I’ll let myself feel them now… Then, I’ll tell the story and let other people feel it, too.’ You know, what strikes me is how desperately we all need to know that we are seen and heard. We say: ‘Here I am pain, I give up… Have your way with me. Healing begins when we stop running and turn ourselves in. I had a similiar problem for along time.I wanted to consider myself straight (even after several encounters with men).Considering myself anything but straight totally blew my mind.How could I not be straight.Was a question that always came up when I thought about it.Growing up the way I did it was quite a bad trip learning to accept I was Bi/gay,and stop denying it.It's not surprising the large amount of fear it brought to me.Being scared of others not accepting me(I'm still not totally out. Straight sucker shit bum ass dude he lucky that guy wasnt packing heat because he definitely would of been dead on the spot. The running and deflecting and numbing always cause more trouble than the pain would have. Ok thanks for clarification.thought for a second people thought the d bag that sucker punches and steals was slick.
And I never thought anyone else would have felt that way, but apparently I'm not alone.
I like to see them in porns, etc and want to play and suck. This passage, written by Glennon Doyle, is raw, relatable and inspiring: “I believe that life starts when we stop running from the pain and instead surrender to it. I am not attracted to men - body or face - whatsoever, have no desire to kiss or touch a man, but penis turns me on. It can be incredibly difficult for us humans to see past the nature of our current situation, however, we need to hold on to the fact that although there are bad times - the most terrible, awful, no good times - there are better times too. We have no control in this life, only choice. Who you are is not about what you believe or how you feel.
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